Roy Hunter
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ANGFA of North America
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> From: rhondawi at sprynet.com
> To: rainbowfish at pcug.org.au
> Subject: Re: [RML] SPAM Why do you keep fish? Maybe Peter likes them
toomuch:-)
> Date: Thursday, March 20, 1997 8:32 PM
>
> SPAM Why do you keep fish? Maybe Peter likes them too much :-)
>
> or
>
> Silly Men and Their Sexual Double Standards
>
> Alan, Roy and Peter,
>
> All right guys, since you have been entertaining(?) us lately with your
> macho tales of sexual conquests, it has left the arena wide open for me
to
> voice one of my pet peeves and ideas as to why men and women have so many
> problems in this area and why I think we are creating the same problem
for
> the next generation.
>
> You guys are playing this little word game to show off how manly you all
> think you are. That's all fine it's all kind of in fun, but the thing is
you
> don't see women doing it. That's because men are more cool when they have
> more parteners and women are sluts. There seems to be a real problem with
> this attitude, like where are you guys gonna get it if the women arent's
> supposed to?
>
> It seems like it would be much better for everyone if it were the same
for
> both sexes. I have obviously mostly female friends and though I think
most
> women like it some, men like to have sex more. It's no wonder if society
> believes that women that are sexual are bad.
>
> If your sitting there saying not me, consider this. You find out your
> teenage son is boinking three of the varsity cheer leaders. What's your
> reaction, "Well son remember you should respect women." And you think
"Chip
> off the ol' block!" You find out your teenage daughters sleeping with
three
> varsity football players. Holy Mother and Francis call the Holy Sisters
> private girls school this kids got problems.<g>
>
> Obviously there are biological reasons why men would be more interested
than
> women. It is more advantagious for a man to spread his DNA around as much
as
> possible. There is more likely hood of having surviving offspring. And
since
> a woman can have less children it is better for them to find one mate and
> keep it around until the offspring has gotten somewhat independent.
However
> though I believe some of the instinct for that is still around, the
modern
> world has made it possible to enjoy sex without procreation if not
desired.
>
> Even so I think that if women and men were taught the same thing from
birth
> the sex drives in each would likly be closer to the same. When you all
> complain about your wives not giving you enough, blame their fathers.<g>
>
> I think that not only does this double standard hurt men, because they
don't
> get as much as they want, it also hurts women and may be more. I think a
lot
> of women have been taught not to enjoy sex. I think a lot of women have
sex
> just to keep a man, and I think it's really sad.
>
> Of course it would probably also help if men would spend a little more
time
> trying to please their women too.<g>
>
> Anyway just a thought.
>
> Rhonda
>
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